A Sermon on Ephesians 5:1-2
Central Church of Christ,
Little Rock, Arkansas
March 15, 2026
Ephesians 5:1-2 says “Walk in the way of love just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and a sacrifice to God.”
Ephesians 5:1-2, the text that Christopher read for us just a moment ago, feels something like the punchline of the book. We’ve been hustling through this cascade of things that God has done for us and that he has changed about our lives in bringing about our salvation and bringing us together, breaking down the dividing walls that live between people and making us one. Then in the last chapter, in chapter 4, we really see this set of things that defines the contours of what a new life looks like in Jesus—what it means to turn away from certain behaviors that are harmful to other people and to turn towards God.
And we finally get to this place, and it’s almost like we have rushed right up to this last space. If you remember, the very last verse of chapter four says, “Put away from you all bitterness and wrath and anger and wrangling and slander and all malice, and be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another as God in Christ has forgiven you.” And really, that sets the stage for these first couple of verses. This is the windup for these two verses that I think are really enough for a sermon here: “Be imitators of God as beloved children and live in love. Live a life of love, walk in love”—this is one of the walking verses—”as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.”
It is good for us to spend a fair amount of time thinking about the different things that we turn away from as we come to follow God. Here is the great single summary of what it is that we are turning to, and for Paul, what we are turning to is above everything else—it is a life of love. It is walking in love. It is what it means to imitate Christ. At the end of the day, it is to love each other, to love our neighbors, to love strangers, even to love enemies.
Love is a word that we have all the time in our society. It means a billion different things to everybody, and to be honest, it means something different to me thirty different times a day. And sometimes it’s hard to discern whether or not the life that I live really is a life of love or not. Is it a life of real love—in other words, dedicated to the good of other people that are around me—or is it the kind of love that is more interested in sort of putting on a good face for my own desires, just so that I can get what I want at the end of the day?
In that magisterial chapter in First Corinthians 13, Paul puts some directions about what love looks like in the household of God, and it’s worth reading again—not just on your wedding day.
Paul says, “If I speak in the tongues of mortals and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong, a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give away all my possessions, if I hand over my body so that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.”
Can we hold up for just a second and remember that this isn’t just rhetoric? I mean, if you take the things that are on the front end of his “but have not,” it actually looks like a pretty doggone holy life, doesn’t it? I mean, notice all the things that make up his portrait of what could be on the other side of the scales. It’s miraculous gifts of tongues of angels, it is the prophetic power, the ability to speak with the voice of God, understanding of all mysteries, the kind of faith that literally moves mountains, the sort of sacrifice of giving away everything that you own, and even handing over your very body to martyrdom. I mean, that kind of feels like a lot. Does it feel like a lot to you?
It’s remarkable how quickly the early church recognized—it’s absolutely remarkable how quickly they recognized—that you could get a lot of the religious forms down right and still have something hollowed out, missing from the middle. I mean, they’re just twenty years into the life of the church. Paul knows that it could be possible that you could have all of the things that happen in worship. And in their day, this is the space of the miraculous: speaking of tongues, the prophetic things that were happening in their worship, these incredible acts of the Spirit. Paul recognizes very early that you could do that but not have a heart of love. He recognizes that you could be a person who has incredible faith in God and even a great understanding of the ways of God. You could be an absolute scholar and yet have something missing in the heart, still have a space in your heart that’s devoid of love. And I mean, it’s crazy how quickly they recognize that you could live so sacrificially that you could literally give away everything that you had—give it to the poor. That you could even go so far as to become a martyr, and yet somewhere in your heart, in the space where it really matters, you failed to cultivate love. And Paul says all of those other things, and it’s his way of saying not just those specific things, not just these four categories. He’s saying everything—everything that you can imagine about the way that you construct whatever it is that Christianity could look like. All of it without love falls apart. All of the things that look right, that could be really impressive, without a heart of love, those things are worthless—like a noisy gong, like a clanging cymbal. They’re just not worth anything.
It’s not just poetry for a wedding day. It’s a picture about what the most important part of discipleship is. So Paul goes on to say that love is patient, it is kind. It is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way. It’s not irritable. Love is not resentful. It does not rejoice in wrongdoing—it does not celebrate wrongdoing—but it rejoices in the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. And the next thing, of course, he says is that love never ends. This is a vision about what it means to live as a person of faith.
Now it’s not just a solo picture of love. Love is not the only thing, but it’s the foundational thing. In fact, if you pay attention to what he says on the other side, he says that love is the thing that produces all these things. But you can’t go from the outside, and you can’t start with being patient and then patient your way into love. You don’t start with just kindness and get to love. You don’t start with envy—or the lack of envy—or root out boastfulness or arrogance from your life, root out rudeness, and then somehow get to love. You can’t just stop insisting on your own way, and eventually that turns into love. It’s the other way around. Paul is giving us descriptions about what love is. Love is rooted in our hearts, and love is the anchor of our being. These are the sorts of things that come out—these kinds of things which sound a lot like the fruits of the Spirit, right? These sorts of things are what happens when our heart is given over to love.
Now, in this passage, it’s a little unclear about what he means—what kind of love or who is the object. Paul doesn’t do any of that kind of defining work, and frankly, I’m not sure that he particularly would care about those distinctions in this context. It’s really about love as the definition of who we are, the definition of what it is that God is creating on earth through us—the kind of new community. That’s why it fits so well in our text in Ephesians, because for the community of faith, love is a starting point. It is a commitment that leads to all the other outgrowth.
In fact, all the things that Paul is saying about the old life and the way that we used to live—those are things that ultimately find their remedy in love. Love from God, the way that God has loved us, and also the love that we in turn have for God. “Be imitators of God,” he says. This is what comes out of you when you’ve been loved. Be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ has forgiven you. Therefore, be imitators of God.
Imitation is Paul’s ultimate way, his ultimate lens of thinking about what the difference between the old way and the new way is. He’s not saying to all the people in the church there in Ephesus, “Don’t you guys see how awesome you are? So love each other well.” He doesn’t say, “You’ve been so blessed to have a wonderful church family. Make sure that you love them well.” Instead, he roots his call to love not in any kind of human action whatsoever.
He says this is the way that God sees you—that the gracious forgiveness of God is for you a sign of the great love of God. So imitate that. Start there. Start with the imitation of Christ. Start with the imitation of God, and then let that love spread out to the way that you treat the people around you.
Imitation of the way of Jesus is right at the heart of what it means to be a people who follow Jesus together. That’s why we reserve time every year to make sure that we’re rooting ourselves in the gospel stories so that we understand how Jesus spoke, how Jesus acted, and we can get a picture of what his love for people really looks like in the story of Jesus.
Even as we take it this morning, what we’ve done today in sharing communion together is imitating a story of Christ—really play-acting something that happened in the story of Jesus where Jesus himself, at the end of his life right before he’s crucified, holds bread up to his disciples and reminds them that he is sacrificing himself for them. And then he goes on and he says, “So do this in remembrance of me.”
And you know what? I think most of the time we take it as meaning “do this in remembrance of me”—take bread and take juice or wine in remembrance, to practice communion or the Lord’s Supper. “Do this”—you know, this practice that you do on Sunday mornings together—”do that in remembrance of me.” But maybe what he means is, “Just as I have given up my body for you, do that in remembrance of me. Just as I have poured out my blood for the sake of you, don’t just take in remembrance of me, but maybe you do this for other people in remembrance of me.”
You understand what I’m saying? It’s not just a ritual. It’s an ethic. It’s not just something that we receive—it’s a new way of life. When we practice this communion ritual, what we’re doing in this moment is we’re rehearsing the story of Jesus’s great sacrifice, of Jesus’s great act of love for us.
We rehearse it and remember that that’s what it means to follow Jesus. To reflect on our other great ritual, this practice of baptism, where we come into the story, we’re doing the exact same thing. And baptism is not just a place where we are washed in the blood of Jesus and where we are therefore forgiven of our sins. It is that—it’s great and I love that it’s that—but just like communion, it’s also a space where we are giving ourselves over. We’re saying, “Just as Jesus died, was killed and buried and resurrected for the sake of other people, I take on that story for myself.” In other words, in places where it’s my life or somebody else’s, I choose to offer my life. Where it’s my simple preferences versus somebody else’s, I choose what’s good for the other person. When it’s my rights versus somebody else’s, I look to the way of Jesus and justice. Just as Jesus was killed and was resurrected, I’ve taken that story on for myself for the sake of other people. I don’t just benefit from the ritual—it’s not just something that I receive. Baptism isn’t just a ritual; it’s an ethic.
Communion and baptism—really what we’re doing is we’re rehearsing the story of Jesus because we are called to imitate the story of Jesus in our lives. These are signs not just of the love of God, but of the love of God which goes through us to each other, into our neighbors and strangers and the enemies around us. This is what it means to be people who follow Jesus together. We follow him to the water. We follow him to the table and we follow him in love at every chance we get.
They say that imitation is the greatest form of flattery, but of course what Paul is calling us to is not just to flatter God, but to worship God. And when we think about imitation in the sense of what it is that we are recognizing in God and that we are trying to follow and imitate God’s love in our own lives, we will often come to the limits of our own capacities. We will come to places where we know that love should look different, but we just kind of fall apart and we fail and we mess up and we let that selfishness that so corrupts our lives—we let it kind of come to the front again.
When I think about the relationship between imitation and worship, what I think is both the ways that we are called to do what God has shown us—to imitate that story, to live it out in our own ways—and also we come back to the table and we go to the water and we recognize not just that this is just a teaching that we imitate, but it’s also something that demonstrates the difference between ours and God’s. In our attempts, in our broken attempts to imitate God as often as we can, we will often find ourselves brushing up against our own corruption, the sin of our own hearts.
And you know what? There is an element when we are confronted by that—when we’re confronted by the guilt, we’re confronted by the bad feelings that come with guilt, we are confronted by sometimes shame, the embarrassment at the way that we treat other people in our own failure to live in love. And even though we have those feelings, and I hope that those feelings move us towards repentance and a desire for repentance, they should also move us most importantly to a recognition of the great love of God, which is so far more than we could muster on our own. So that our failures become a witness, even to the greatness of God. Even our failures, even our own limitations of love, ultimately show us and remind us of the incredible, unique love of God.
Now we’re pursuing it. We want to imitate it. We want to live it out as well as we can in the world. But every time we fail to do that, even though in some sense you could say, “Well, that’s a failure in their witness to Christ,” and that’s true, but even as we fail, the unfailing love of God is still given witness in our lives. My own limitations ultimately serve to remind myself and everybody else around me that I’m not God.
Imitation is not just flattery. Imitation in the Christian way is about worship. It’s about recognition of who God is, even as we fail, and even as we find our own hearts to need more grace to love well. When Paul says in Ephesians here to be imitators of God, to live a life of love, it’s a great calling. It’s a hard calling. It’s a difficult calling, because we will always find ourselves not living up to it. But as we stretch, as we reach, as we repent, and as God in His own grace teaches us and transforms us over and over again by the same story—by the same story over and over and over again in our lives—this is where God does His work of making something new.
People don’t know how to love. As much as we talk about it, as much as it’s a word in the air, as many thousands of different ways that we use the language of love, we still don’t know how to do it. God is faithful, and God is bringing to us over and over again the story that defines love. And God has the audacity to pull us into His story of love and to give us a spirit that will teach us little faithful ways, bit by bit, inch by inch, about what it means to be people who imitate the love of God in our lives.
This is, like I said, kind of the punchline of the story. But if you are paying attention, chapter 5 and chapter 6 are still there, right? The book’s not over yet. We’ll come back next week and we’ll talk about some of the rest of what’s in chapter 5, and then we have more to explore.
We’re starting to be patient for a few more minutes, and that’s the way it is when you give yourself to this life of imitation and worship. Sometimes you find yourself right at the place where love is calling you, and it’s just hard. This is where I need to get back into the fundamentals—the fundamental calling of love. But then you also have to think about what love looks like in practice. You have to think about what love looks like in your home or in your business or in your school. What does love look like in the streets?
So there’s a cycle, right? We recognize our limitations. We’re called into God’s story. We find ourselves repenting, and we lean into it a little bit more. Of course, we find ourselves called back into our limitations as we do this. Love is not a one-stop fix. It’s something that we’re working on, right? You know, that’s right at the heart of what I think we’re about here—right at the heart of what I think it means to be this gathered people who comes to tables, that passes bread and wine around on Sunday mornings, that sings songs of worship, recognizing the love of God. A community that has the audacity to share life with each other a little bit—laugh with each other’s kids, celebrate victories, mourn defeats, and lament tragedies. Just hold each other up a little bit to see each other and be known, to be willing to let other people know you. All of that together—it really is about learning to love, isn’t it? I mean, isn’t that what we’re doing?
I don’t know how you think about it. I don’t know how you think about what it is that we’re doing here, but we’re kind of like a love training camp. We’re kind of a place where people—I think what we’re doing together is we’re coming and we’re diving into each other, just hoping that God—God who loves us through and through—that God will just give us the grace to learn what it means to love well. And you know what? I know I’m not done with it.
I know that I have a lot of places that I still have to learn where that description of things that we read in First Corinthians shows me places that I still need to grow and still need to stretch in the way that I love people well. But by the grace of Jesus, I’m not where I used to be either, right? I mean, what about you? Has following Jesus made a difference for you? Has he taught you something about what it means to love well?
There’s an old story—it’s an old Amish story about a man, and somebody asked him, “Are you a Christian? Are you a follower of Jesus?” And he responded, “Well, I don’t know. You’ll have to ask my neighbors.” Do the people with whom I share life—can they recognize that the love of God has grown within me? Can the people with whom I work and play and learn, and the people who live down the street from me, can they tell a difference that following Jesus has made a difference in how I love? And the answer is sometimes yes and sometimes no, and I want to be more yeses than I want to be nos. But I’m still learning, and I think we all are together. And I think that’s the heart of what we’re trying to do when we say we are people who follow Jesus together.
I think what we mean is that we are a people being trained by Jesus to love well. It’s a pretty compelling vision, isn’t it? I don’t know why the church sometimes stops short of saying the message that way. There’s just so much extra stuff sometimes. Sometimes it seems that we’re selling all the things that Paul in First Corinthians says don’t matter without love.
If you’re a person that hasn’t yet signed up for all this, I just want to say to you this morning, when we talk about coming and being baptized, being part of the church, we talk about giving your life to Jesus. This is what we mean by signing up for a different kind of life and recognition of the sacrifice that Jesus has made for you—signing up to be one of his apprentices, his trainees. Signing up for this, it’s not just an online course. Signing up for this course of following in his way happens in a moment and it happens over the course of your whole life.
Today we have a moment of invitation, and I want to say if you’re in a place where you have been looking for something like that, you’ve been exploring this Jesus stuff for a while—man, sign up for it. Go for it. Give your life to Jesus, letting him teach you what it means to love well. Let him take all the things that make you broken and let him teach you what it means to be one of his people, one of the people who are in his school of love.
And my friends, if you’ve been here for a while and you’ve just been going through one of those seasons where this stuff has faded into the background, repent. Come back to Jesus. Come back to the teacher. Give him again—put yourself back in the story and let him do some work.
As we sing, if you’re in one of those places where you’re at a place where you need to come back to God, or if you’re in a place where it’s time to get started, you’re welcome to come while we stand and sing together.

